The only way to make sense out of change is to plunge into it, move with it, and join the dance.

~Alan Watts

Each year as we flip the calendar to the following year, many jump out of the starting block enthusiastically. We think that with the change of date, the obstacles in our paths will miraculously disappear; life will be different.

And you know what? It is, and it isn’t. Today is different than yesterday. Even if invisible, the planet has shifted; the sun rises earlier and sets later, and our cells regenerate. However, our challenges may be the same because we haven’t changed how we look at them.

Whether we realize it or not, we are responsible for what is blocking our growth. Self-talk is what keeps us from moving forward. We can continue to live in our past, be comfortable in our old patterns, and how we have always done something or change. Until we shift our inner dialog, everything remains the same. To modify our life is within our power.

Turning a challenge into a gift happens when we acknowledge that what is presented to us is an opportunity for self-growth.

When we encounter a block in the road, we can bang our heads into the wall or figure a way through it. Awareness doesn’t take undue intelligence. It takes tenacity, the ability to stay with the challenge longer. Yet, many will give up before they begin.

Finding the reason why not to do something takes as much energy as it does to do it. So, unfortunately, finding excuses not to do something only serves as an energy siphon, and carrying the baggage of what we have yet to do, becomes a chore.

Even if the how-tos bring trials and tribulations, it is worth the effort, knowing we are closer to success; as Molière reminds us, “The greater the obstacle, the more glory in overcoming it.”

Have you ever had a phone call you needed to make and put it off day after day, ignoring it until there could be no more delay? Then, finally, you pick up the phone; you have the conversation, and even if it is uncomfortable, you put the phone down, and poof, the heaviness you have carried has dissipated.

Challenges appear in our lives as opportunities. By hiding from the challenge, we are stifling our growth. Life presents us with precisely what we need at the time they arise. If we address the situation, they go away.

Yet, sometimes we are not equipped to handle them immediately, so we move around them, up and over them, but not through them: this is ok. They will always reappear, gifting us another opportunity to maneuver them. We can avoid them for a time. However, challenges must be completed, or they will continue to emerge, often for years or a lifetime. Sometimes they will be disguised, attempting to fool us into believing it is something different. But don’t be fooled. Challenges are crafty and persistent.

As we become more self-aware, patterns will arise with what we have attracted into our lives. Our behavior is always a reflection of the past, developed through beliefs based on our experiences and exposure. When we discern commonality in the choices we have consistently made, we can trace them back to the inception of our core beliefs. Our belief systems are put in place to serve and protect us. Through self-reflection, we can let go of what is now outdated and replace them.

And as rapidly as they developed, just as quickly they were released.

Personal evolution is ongoing. We don’t suddenly wake up, and viola, we are spiritually awakened. It is a process. And the process can be as tricky or as effortless as we make it.

By shifting our perception to understand challenges are an opportunity for our spiritual growth and not an impediment, each step presents us with the offering that comes from that knowledge. It is up to us whether we want to walk through them. The option is ours. Our survival as species has always relied on our ability to traverse challenges, resulting in adjusting to new ideas, being watchful of outcomes, and not circumventing the certainty of difficulty.

Our consciousness is stimulated when we introduce alternative ideas into our awareness. So strive to stay awake while remaining observant when facing these blocks. And then turn the table of outmoded thoughts, accept and welcome them as extraordinary gifts.

Change will not come if we wait for some other person or some other time. We are the ones we’ve been waiting for. We are the change that we seek.

~ Barack Obama