Curating Your Imagined Life: The quiet power of tending

With each choice you make, you create your life. ~Albert Einstein   We are the stewards of our lives. Not just our possessions, but of our attentions, our thoughts, the words we speak, and the frequency we emit. This perspective on stewardship naturally extends beyond our belongings into the unseen realm of our inner lives. If you desire a $60,000 car but can only afford a $6,000 one, treat it…

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Rooted Without Permission

“What the superior man seeks is in himself; what the small man seeks is in others.” ~Confucius   Not all approval-seeking is inherently bad. As adolescents, we naturally look to parents and teachers for guidance. Their approval helps us learn and make sound decisions. But many adults continue the habit—defaulting to justification or over-explaining when approval isn’t granted. Social media amplifies this tendency. It shows up in posts and responses,…

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Forget About Being Here Now

This moment belongs to you.” — Unknown    Be Here Now, a book published in 1971 and written by Ram Dass, was life-changing for many, myself included. It was one of the trailblazers for elevating consciousness, germinating some of our current buzzwords, such as “living in the moment,” “self-awareness,” “consciousness,” and “mindfulness,” over 50 years later. It was my entrée into mindfulness: being present in the moment, the radical idea that…

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Calm Silence

The world doesn’t need more noise, it needs more noticing.  In many societies, silence is often misunderstood—perceived as awkward, uncomfortable, or even negative. The impulse to fill every pause with words stems from a desire to connect, to reassure, to be seen. That fear of the “awkward silence” is universal; how many of us feel it in a crowded elevator, where you avoid eye contact and words are muted? In…

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The Shape of Seeing: A meditation on perspective, silence, and the quiet wisdom of change.

We don’t see things as they are, we see them as we are ~Anaïs Nin    We are constantly shifting. What feels true today may differ by tomorrow. Even if I return to the same conclusion, I arrive with new eyes. Perspective isn’t fixed; it’s a tide. It moves when we question, when we listen, when we pause long enough to notice what’s been quietly waiting. I grew up between…

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Miracles Begin Where Need Ends

“If you love something, set it free. If it comes back, it’s yours. If it doesn’t, it never was.” We’ve heard this phrase countless times, often in the context of relationships. But what if the ‘something’ isn’t a person, it’s our need to be understood? The ways of the universe are simple. We complicate them. We layer our projections onto its quiet rhythms, hoping to shape reality into something more…

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When Fear Strikes, It is a Sign to Let Go

Courage is not the absence of fear, but the triumph over it. ~ Nelson Mandela.  Fear is not something to sidestep. It has often been labeled as a negative, something to conquer or suppress, but fear in its raw form can be helpful. It alerts us that something needs attention. It’s a signal, pointing to something deeper. Not a flaw, but a beacon of light. Not a weakness, but a whisper.…

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The Soul’s Journey: Embracing the Spiral of Becoming

 Aligning with the spiritual realm is crucial for a successful, purpose-filled life. ~ Deepak Chopra   What does it truly mean to evolve, not just in thought, but in spirit? Acceptance of the Soul’s Journey invites us to notice the quiet, powerful shifts that signal spiritual growth, moments of deep self-awareness, softened judgments, and the trust that is uncovered in surrender.  The soul’s path isn’t a straight line; it curves, and…

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What If They Don’t Need Saving?

The most important thing to do in your life is not to interfere with somebody else’s life. ~Frank Zappa Why stepping back is sometimes the most loving thing we can do. Cultural messages, early life dynamics, and sometimes even gender expectations can quietly shape how we show up in the world. Many of us grew up with responsibilities beyond our years. We learned consciously or not that calming the storm,…

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It’s Your Creation: Life Isn’t Happening To You

Life isn’t about finding yourself. It is about creating yourself. ~ George Bernard Shaw Life isn’t happening to you. We often walk through life thinking things are happening to us — as if we are victims of fate, circumstance, or someone else’s choices. However, the truth is that life responds to us. Every experience, every person who enters our path, every detour and delight. It’s all a mirror. A reflection…

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