When Fear Strikes, It is a Sign to Let Go

Courage is not the absence of fear, but the triumph over it. ~ Nelson Mandela.  Fear is not something to sidestep. It has often been labeled as a negative, something to conquer or suppress, but fear in its raw form can be helpful. It alerts us that something needs attention. It’s a signal, pointing to something deeper. Not a flaw, but a beacon of light. Not a weakness, but a whisper.…

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The Soul’s Journey: Embracing the Spiral of Becoming

 Aligning with the spiritual realm is crucial for a successful, purpose-filled life. ~ Deepak Chopra   What does it truly mean to evolve, not just in thought, but in spirit? Acceptance of the Soul’s Journey invites us to notice the quiet, powerful shifts that signal spiritual growth, moments of deep self-awareness, softened judgments, and the trust that is uncovered in surrender.  The soul’s path isn’t a straight line; it curves, and…

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What If They Don’t Need Saving?

The most important thing to do in your life is not to interfere with somebody else’s life. ~Frank Zappa Why stepping back is sometimes the most loving thing we can do. Cultural messages, early life dynamics, and sometimes even gender expectations can quietly shape how we show up in the world. Many of us grew up with responsibilities beyond our years. We learned consciously or not that calming the storm,…

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It’s Your Creation: Life Isn’t Happening To You

Life isn’t about finding yourself. It is about creating yourself. ~ George Bernard Shaw Life isn’t happening to you. We often walk through life thinking things are happening to us — as if we are victims of fate, circumstance, or someone else’s choices. However, the truth is that life responds to us. Every experience, every person who enters our path, every detour and delight. It’s all a mirror. A reflection…

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Release Limiting Beliefs: Rewrite Your Truth

You cannot change what you refuse to confront.  ~ attrributed to various people Have you ever noticed how often we speak from someone else’s perspective? Our thoughts become rewired or take a back seat to how others think or act. We follow the crowd, the popular way of thinking. Then we may begin to feel dissatisfied, something is missing, Truth statements, which I also refer to as knowings, may help…

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The Power of Seeing With Fresh Eyes

The real voyage of discovery consists not in seeking new landscapes but in having new eyes.  – Marcel Proust We often think that transformation requires something dramatic—a new city, a new relationship, a new job. But what if the true shift isn’t external at all? What if the most profound changes happen when we revise how we see what’s already in front of us? Sometimes it’s not the world that needs…

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If You Can’t Change It, Let it Go

Worry does not empty tomorrow of its sorrow. It empties today of its strength. ~ Corrie Ten Boom   Worry is a sneaky thief. It promises us control, but robs us of peace. It has never prevented a bad outcome, never softened a blow, never offered a solution. And yet, we hold on to it like it’s a necessary burden, like worry somehow proves we care. The truth is: if…

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When Silence Speaks Louder: The Art of Letting Opinions Go

Opinion is really the lowest form of human knowledge. It requires no accountability, no understanding.  ~Plato. This quote made me pause and reflect. How often do we offer our thoughts uninvited, disguised as ‘help’? I admit it. I am opinionated, and learning to keep my opinions to myself has been a lifelong lesson. I have opinions on most things and enjoy a lively debate when someone has a differing one;…

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Mourning the Mother I Would Never Be

“That she bear children is not a woman’s significance. But that she bear herself, that is her supreme and risky fate.” ~ D.H. Lawrence I was not the woman who went starry-eyed when I saw a baby. However, I always thought I would be a fantastic mother. My maternal and caretaking instincts were honed. The comment “You’ll be a great mom” was shared amongst friends, and in my mind, I…

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Why Do We Search for the Real Deal but Cannot Live it?

The authentic self is the soul made visible. ~ Anonymous.  Humans are complex. We say we want love, meaningful friendships, or fulfilling careers—yet our actions often betray those desires. We’ve allowed others to define us, and over time, we begin to live their reality instead of our own. Living authentically means going against a lifetime of conditioning. We’ve learned to fit in, to please, to perform. Breaking free of those…

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