You cannot change what you refuse to confront.  ~ attrributed to various people Have you ever noticed how often we speak from someone else’s perspective? Our thoughts become rewired or take a back seat to how others think or act. We follow the crowd, the popular way of thinking. Then we may begin to feel dissatisfied, something is missing, Truth statements, which I also refer to as knowings, may help…

The real voyage of discovery consists not in seeking new landscapes but in having new eyes.  – Marcel Proust We often think that transformation requires something dramatic—a new city, a new relationship, a new job. But what if the true shift isn’t external at all? What if the most profound changes happen when we revise how we see what’s already in front of us? Sometimes it’s not the world that needs…

Worry does not empty tomorrow of its sorrow. It empties today of its strength. ~ Corrie Ten Boom   Worry is a sneaky thief. It promises us control, but robs us of peace. It has never prevented a bad outcome, never softened a blow, never offered a solution. And yet, we hold on to it like it’s a necessary burden, like worry somehow proves we care. The truth is: if…

Opinion is really the lowest form of human knowledge. It requires no accountability, no understanding.  ~Plato. This quote made me pause and reflect. How often do we offer our thoughts uninvited, disguised as ‘help’? I admit it. I am opinionated, and learning to keep my opinions to myself has been a lifelong lesson. I have opinions on most things and enjoy a lively debate when someone has a differing one;…

The authentic self is the soul made visible. ~ Anonymous.  Humans are complex. We say we want love, meaningful friendships, or fulfilling careers—yet our actions often betray those desires. We’ve allowed others to define us, and over time, we begin to live their reality instead of our own. Living authentically means going against a lifetime of conditioning. We’ve learned to fit in, to please, to perform. Breaking free of those…

The privilege of a lifetime is to become who you truly are ~ Carl Jung. The authentic self is who we are at our absolute core. It is who we were born to be. A composite of all our skills, talents, and wisdom, it is what makes us uniquely us because it is our souls’ calling.  Yet, we define our lives by the roles we play and the titles we…

“Failure is constructive feedback that tells you to try a different approach to accomplish what you want.” ― Idowu Koyenikan   Improving who we are, whether for self-development or in business, is a continuous process. It doesn’t happen in a one-time fix; it requires constant attention. People with growth mindsets acknowledge that the brain grows and changes through effort. Therefore, continuous improvement is their standard. They embrace failures as opportunities, develop…

Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions. If you want others to be happy, practice compassion. If you want to be happy, practice compassion. ~ Dalai Lama Most people want to be happy; it is not a novel idea. Society has programmed us that happiness is a life goal. Feel-good movies abound, and songs are written about it. We all seem to want it, but…

“A person’s assumptions reveal who they are, more than the words they utter.” ~ Wayne Gerard Trotman   We make assumptions based on our own experiences. We assume that because it is our truth, it is true for others, thus supporting and confirming our beliefs about life. These assumptions often go to negativity rather than an objective reality of a situation, because we have a built-in negativity bias in our…